LettyLup

LO QUE VEO EN TI

2012-01-17T22:58:00.001-06:00

Posees conocimiento, experiencias, madurez e inteligencia… Eres educado, interesante, atento, encantador…

VIDA...

2011-10-07T00:38:00.005-05:00

Ya perdoné errores casi imperdonables.

Trate de sustituir personas insustituibles,
de olvidar personas inolvidables.

Ya hice cosas por impulso.

Ya me decepcioné con algunas personas ,
mas también yo decepcioné a alguien

Ya abracé para proteger .
Ya me reí cuando no podía .
Ya hice amigos eternos.
Ya amé y fui amado pero también fui rechazado.
Ya fui amado y no supe amar.

Ya grité y salté de felicidad.
Ya viví de amor e hice juramentos eternos,
pero también los he roto y muchos.

Ya lloré escuchando música y viendo fotos .
Ya llamé sólo para escuchar una voz .

Ya me enamoré por una sonrisa.
Ya pensé que iba a morir de tanta nostalgia y ...

Tuve miedo de perder a alguien especial
(y termine perdiéndolo) ¡¡
pero sobreviví !!
Y todavía vivo !!
No paso por la vida.

Y tú tampoco deberías sólo pasar ...
VIVE!!!

Bueno es ir a la lucha con determinación
abrazar la vida y vivir con pasión.

Perder con clase y vencer con osadía,
por que el mundo pertenece a quien se atreve
y la vida es mucho más para ser insignificante.

Charles Chaplin

CON DEDICATORIA

2011-08-23T23:29:00.001-05:00

Ya no me impresiona tu seguridad, tu perfección, tus teorías, ni tu carácter invulnerable... Ahora prefiero convivir con la gente que se equivoca.

UN BESO GRANDE

2011-08-01T00:15:00.000-05:00

Silvio Rodriguez - Quien Fuera

2011-07-24T21:56:00.001-05:00

corazón, corazón obscuro
corazón, corazón con muros
corazón que se esconde
corazón que esta donde, corazón
corazón en fuga herido de dudas de amor

NEVER IGNORE A PERSON WHO LOVES YOU

2011-05-30T00:54:00.002-05:00

wow... It's so touching

2011-04-15T00:40:00.000-05:00

BEAUTIFUL

2011-04-15T00:32:00.000-05:00

MOLESTA

2011-04-12T23:38:00.002-05:00

Me siento un poco molesta, porque no se me hace posible que en tu propio lugar de trabajo exista gente amante de lo ajeno. El día de hoy fui víctima de una persona sin escrúpulos que aprovecho mi ausencia, de no más de 10 minutos, para abrir mi bolsa y sacar mi cartera.

Ese tipo de acciones te pasan a fastidiar porque no sólo te roban tu dinero sino también tu tiempo, pues tienes que disponer de cierto espacio para poder tramitar las credenciales y las tarjetas que en su graciosidad se llevaron, Y LO MEJOR!! Es que a parte del dinero que te robaron, TIENES QUE PAGAR!! Para poder reponer los documentos que los amantes de lo ajeno se llevaron. En fin, personita de malas mañas, solo espero que te aproveche y te sea de utilidad.

Gracias, porque que tu acción me enseñaste que incluso en mi lugar de trabajo tengo que ser más precavida y menos confiada.

Para vivir existen tres métodos: mendigar, robar o realizar algo.

(Conde de Mirabeau)

FOR WHO I AM

2011-03-28T02:19:00.002-05:00

Love me without fear
Trust me without questioning
Need me without demanding
Want me without restrictions
Accept me without change
Desire me without inhibitions ...
...

Dick Sutphen

SERÁ?

2011-03-01T23:32:00.003-06:00

Será pasión lujuria o deseo.

Serán caricias besos o sexo.
Será lo que quiero o lo que quieres.
Será tu sueño o mi realidad.
Será lo que es o solo es lo que será...

EXISTE

2011-02-25T23:41:00.004-06:00

Existe, en verdad, un magnetismo, o más bien una electricidad del amor, que se comunica por el solo contacto de las yemas de los dedos.

VALENTINE'S DAY

2011-02-13T23:21:00.002-06:00

“I don't pretend to know what love is for everyone, but I can tell you what it is for me; love is knowing all about someone, and still wanting to be with them more than any other person, love is trusting them enough to tell them everything about yourself, including the things you might be ashamed of, love is feeling comfortable and safe with someone, but still getting weak knees when they walk into a room and smile at you.”

BACK

2011-02-09T00:29:00.001-06:00

When I was with you I didn't realized how much I had changed and now that I'm away from you, I've begun to wonder if I'm better without you, because I have returned to me again.

It doesn't mean I don't miss you, because sometimes I do.

HABLAME DE AMOR

2011-01-24T23:40:00.000-06:00

THERE'S A PLACE FOR US

2010-12-15T23:53:00.001-06:00

There's a place out there for us,
more than just a prayer or anything you've ever dreamed of.
So if you feel like giving up cause you don't fit in down here,
fear is crashing in, close your eyes and take my hand.

We can be the kings and queens of anything if we believe.
It's written in the stars that shine above,
a world where you and I belong, where faith and love will keep us strong,
exactly who we are is just enough
there's a place for us, there's a place for us.

When the water meets the sky,
where your heart is free and hope comes back to life,
when these broken hands are whole again,
well will find what we've been waiting for,
we were made for so much more

We can be the kings and queens of anything if we believe.
It's written in the stars that shine above,
a world where you and I belong, where faith and love will keep us strong,
exactly who we are is just enough,
there's a place for us, there's a place for us

So hold on, now hold on,
there's a place for us

We can be the kings and queens of anything if we believe.
It's written in the stars that shine above,
a world where you and I belong, where faith and love will keep us strong,
exactly who we are is just enough, exactly who we are is just enough,
there's a place for us.

CERRANDO CIRCULOS

2010-10-28T23:02:00.002-05:00

Siempre es preciso saber cuando se acaba una etapa de la vida. Sí insistes en permanecer en ella más allá del tiempo necesario, pierdes la alegría y el sentido del resto.

Cerrando círculos, o cerrando puertas, o cerrando capítulos, como quieras llamarlo. Lo importante es poder cerrarlos, y dejar ir momentos de la vida que se van clausurando. ¿Terminó tu trabajo?, ¿Se acabó tu relación?, ¿Ya no vives más en esa casa?, ¿Debes irte de viaje?, ¿La relación se acabó?. Puedes pasarte mucho tiempo de tu presente "revolcándote" en los porqués, en devolver el cassette y tratar de entender por qué sucedió tal o cual hecho. El desgaste va a ser infinito, porque en la vida, tú, yo, tu amigo, tus hijos, tus hermanos, todos y todas estamos encaminados hacia ir cerrando capítulos, ir dando vuelta a la hoja, a terminar con etapas, o con momentos de la vida y seguir adelante.

No podemos estar en el presente añorando el pasado. Ni siquiera preguntándonos porqué. Lo que sucedió, sucedió, y hay que soltarlo, hay que desprenderse. No podemos ser niños eternos, ni adolescentes tardíos, ni empleados de empresas inexistentes, ni tener vínculos con quien no quiere estar vinculado a nosotros.

¡Los hechos pasan y hay que dejarlos ir! Por eso, a veces es tan importante destruir recuerdos, regalar presentes, cambiar de casa, romper papeles, tirar documentos, y vender o regalar libros. Los cambios externos pueden simbolizar procesos interiores de superación. Dejar ir, soltar, desprenderse. En la vida nadie juega con las cartas marcadas, y hay que aprender a perder y a ganar. Hay que dejar ir, hay que dar vuelta a la hoja, hay que vivir sólo lo que tenemos en el presente. El pasado ya pasó. No esperes que te lo devuelvan, no esperes que te reconozcan, no esperes que alguna vez se den cuenta de quién eres tú. Suelta el resentimiento. El prender "tu televisor personal" para darle y darle al asunto, lo único que consigue es dañarte mentalmente, envenenarte, y amargarte. La vida está para adelante, nunca para atrás.

Si andas por la vida dejando "puertas abiertas", por si acaso, nunca podrás desprenderte ni vivir lo de hoy con satisfacción. ¿Noviazgos o amistades que no clausuran?, ¿Posibilidades de regresar? (¿a qué?), ¿Necesidad de aclaraciones?, ¿Palabras que no se dijeron?, ¿Silencios que lo invadieron?

Si puedes enfrentarlos ya y ahora, hazlo, si no, déjalos ir, cierra capítulos. Dite a ti mismo que no, que no vuelven. Pero no por orgullo ni soberbia, sino porque tú ya no encajas allí en ese lugar, en ese corazón, en esa habitación, en esa casa, en esa oficina, en ese oficio. Tú ya no eres el mismo que fuiste hace dos días, hace tres meses, hace un año. Por lo tanto, no hay nada a qué volver. Cierra la puerta, da vuelta a la hoja, cierra el círculo. Ni tú serás el mismo, ni el entorno al que regresas será igual, porque en la vida nada se queda quieto, nada es estático. Es salud mental, amor por ti mismo, desprender lo que ya no está en tu vida.

Recuerda que nada ni nadie es indispensable. Ni una persona, ni un lugar, ni un trabajo. Nada es vital para vivir porque cuanto tú viniste a este mundo, llegaste sin adhesivo. Por tanto, es costumbre vivir pegado a él, y es un trabajo personal aprender a vivir sin él, sin el adhesivo humano o físico que hoy te duele dejar ir.

Es un proceso de aprender a desprenderse y, humanamente se puede lograr, porque te repito: nada ni nadie nos es indispensable. Sólo es costumbre, apego, necesidad. Pero cierra, clausura, limpia, tira, oxigena, despréndete, sacúdete, suéltate. Hay muchas palabras para significar salud mental y cualquiera que sea la que escojas, te ayudará definitivamente a seguir para adelante con tranquilidad.

¡Esa es la vida!

Por Paulo Coelho

PIENSA EN MI

2010-10-10T22:25:00.000-05:00

2010-10-09T00:13:00.002-05:00

After a storm comes a calm, and today I must say that
I FEEL SO HAPPY =)

I JUST WANT...

2010-09-20T01:29:00.001-05:00

... someone to understand me, when no words are spoken.

DIFFERENCES

2010-09-20T01:11:00.008-05:00

I think sometimes we don’t understand our way of being, especially when we are apart.

In my case there are some days in which I feel a big need to be close to you, and feel that despite the distance you are with me. Due to our situation the only way I can feel you like that is in the days I talk to you and I guess sometimes I'm not in the mood to bear your silence or lack of interest to talk.

That’s way there are some days in which I am more vulnerable to your silence and indifference, and not knowing how to deal with that situation, I express my feelings in a different way, for example, I can make you feel that I want you to be away, when what I really need is to feel you close.

Sadly, after these situations we begin to have a war of egos, and pride prevails and I hate that part.

We both have to learn: “Love me when I least deserve it, because that's when I really need it.”

Postscript: Why do you like to disappear as if the earth had swallowed you?

DO YOU?

2010-09-17T21:50:00.003-05:00

I guess sometimes I expect more than you can offer me, and sometimes I want you to be different. But, if I want to be with you, I’m the one who has to understand that “amar no es solamente querer, es sobre todo comprender”.

Do you understand me?

STUPID EGO

2010-06-02T21:03:00.001-05:00

Now is when you start wondering why you didn’t realize before how much you were hurting me with your way of being, why you were not able to perceive that I was not smiling, that practically I told you nothing.

You said you realized that you really had dedicated to ignore me, by locking up yourself in your world, and when I wanted to be close you just pushed me thousand times away, and when you wanted to go back, you realized you had lost me. You wanted to hold me, but you found out that the way I looked at you had changed and that all the love I felt for you ran away.

Now you say you are sorry, because you were not able to understand what you understand today, that I was special for you, and that your blindness didn’t allow you seeing that all the time you were letting me for later.

Stupid ego

DESDE CUANDO

2010-05-30T15:35:00.003-05:00

Ya no duele porque al fin ya te encontré
Hoy te miro y siento mil cosas a la vez
Mira si busqué, mira si busqué
Tengo tanto que aprender
Todo lo que tengo es tu mirar

De mis recuerdos salen brisas a bordar
Las locuras que tú me quieras regalar
Y mira si busqué, mira si busqué
Tengo tanto para dar
Reconozco puertas que yo sé
Se abren solamente alguna vez
Así de poco

Desde cuando te estaré esperando
Desde cuando estoy buscando
Tu mirada en el firmamento, estás temblando
Te he buscado en un millón de auroras
Y ninguna me enamora como tú sabes
Y me he dado cuenta ahora
Puede parecer atrevimiento
Pero es puro sentimiento
Dime por favor tu nombre

Yo te llevo por las calles a correr
Vamos lejos más allá de lo que crees
Y si pregunto bien, si pregunto mal
Tengo tanto que ofrecer
Abro puertas que alguien me cerró
Y no busco más sentido a mi dolor

Mira no me vuelvas loco

Desde cuando te estaré esperando
Desde cuando estoy buscando
Tu mirada en el firmamento, va temblando
Te he buscando en un millón de auroras
Y ninguna me enamora como tú sabes
Y me he dado cuenta ahora
Puede parecer atrevimiento
Pero es puro sentimiento
Dime por favor tu nombre
No me vuelvas loco
Desde cuando te estaré esperando
Desde cuando estoy buscando
Tu mirada en el firmamento, va temblando
Te he buscando en un millón de auroras
Y ninguna me enamora
Y al final cuando te encuentro
Estabas sola

INVICTUS

2010-02-14T23:44:00.002-06:00

Out of the night that covers me,
Black as the pit from pole to pole,
I thank whatever gods may be
For my unconquerable soul.

In the fell clutch of circumstance
I have not winced nor cried aloud.
Under the bludgeonings of chance
My head is bloody, but unbowed.

Beyond this place of wrath and tears
Looms but the Horror of the shade,
And yet the menace of the years
Finds and shall find me unafraid.

It matters not how strait the gate,
How charged with punishments the scroll,
I am the master of my fate:
I am the captain of my soul.

William Ernest Henley
(1875)

UP IN THE AIR

2010-02-08T00:59:00.001-06:00

Ryan Bingham: I thought I was a part of your life.

Alex Goran: I thought we signed up for the same thing... I thought our relationship was perfectly clear. You are an escape. You're a break from our normal lives. You're a parenthesis.

Ryan Bingham: I'm a parenthesis?

HELLO

2010-01-25T23:30:00.004-06:00

- If you love someone, give them the option to leave, but never give them a reason to.

- If he was stupid enough to walk away, be smart enough to let him go.

- If you can't love me at my worst, then you don't need me at my best!

2009-11-23T21:13:00.002-06:00

Dancing is the vertical expression of a horizontal desire

MAD

2009-11-15T18:19:00.006-06:00

I'm staring at him, I'm sitting wondering what he's thinking , nobody's talking, cause' talking just turns into screaming and now yes I'm yelling over him, he's yelling over me, all that that means is neither of us are listening, and what's even worse, that we don't even remember why we're fighting. It gets me upset when you're constantly accusing asking questions like you already know hey we're fighting this war when both of us are losing this ain't the way that love is supposed to go, what happened to working it out? We fall into this place where you ain't backing down, and I ain't backing down, so what the hell do we do now?.

Ne - Yo

LOVE, SEX AND MAGIC

2009-10-18T19:17:00.001-05:00

THAT NIGHT

2009-08-28T17:32:00.004-05:00

I saw you and you did not call my attention but that night the circumstances made us dance, having as a background the sound of the sea and music that incited us to the closeness. I was enjoying the moment and after a while I forgot about everything and I let myself to be guided by the subtlety of your seduction and the aggressiveness and sweetness of your kisses.

2009-08-19T01:59:00.004-05:00

You were my best birthday gift.

I DON'T KNOW

2009-08-05T23:30:00.003-05:00

Today I started wondering if my life is showing me the way I should follow. Do I need to have more evidences to understand I need to close a cycle and start a new one but in another place?

TRUE OR FALSE

2009-05-16T23:11:00.002-05:00

In woman, love leads to sex. In men, sex leads to love.

Do you think is true?

LITTLE MANHATTAN

2009-04-27T00:09:00.008-05:00

"Love is an ugly, terrible business practiced by fools. It'll trample your heart and leave you bleeding on the floor. And what does it really get you in the end? Nothing but a few incredible memories that you can't ever shake. The truth is, there's gonna be other girls out there. I mean, I hope. But I'm never gonna get another first love. That one is always gonna be her."

LLEGA CADA NOCHE

2009-02-17T00:29:00.001-06:00

Si tu cuerpo se marcho, tu fantasma se quedo.

LIFE IS A DREAM

2008-12-11T17:27:00.005-06:00

I dream that I am here
of these imprisonments charged,
and I dreamed that in another state
happier I saw myself.
What is life? A frenzy.
What is life? An illusion,
A shadow, a fiction,
And the greatest profit is small;
For all of life is a dream,
And dreams, are nothing but dreams.

Pedro Calderón de la Barca

HOLA

2008-11-12T23:58:00.001-06:00

Today I was taking a look to my blog and I read some of the posts I wrote some time ago. My words made me remember the way I was feeling, because a lot of my writings reflected the melancholy, the sadness, the despair, the anger, the confusion that my soul, my heart and my head were having.

I guess nowadays I see things with a different mirror, because I feel much better.

I’m glad I create this small world in which I found wonderful people that little by little became part of my life. Thanks to all of you, for having some time to leave me a comment. All your comments were and are so important for me.

I’m not saying good bye, because this little nightmare (LettyLup) will continue here, but I won’t write so often, because sometimes there is no time to do it.

Warm regards,

LettyLup

RECLAMO

2008-08-02T21:40:00.009-05:00

Te sentí cerca de mí
acaricié tu tersa mano
Tú estabas lejos de aquí
tu pensamiento era lejano.

Te estreche contra mi pecho
y así tímido en el lecho arcano.

Disfrutas las lisonjas de la vida
a la soledad reclamas tus derechos
y a mi amor que te brindo sin medida
le niegas sin razón sus hechos.

Deja ya tu quimera vana
de la realidad busca el ensueño
que la vida es hoy no mañana.

Ramón MacKinney

WONDERING

2008-07-06T13:12:00.005-05:00

Someone said: "At the moment I´m wondering if you’re still being my present, if you will be my future or even if you already are part of my past".

Should I continue with you or should I tell you "adios"?

http://flickr.com/photos/92888396@N00/14894231

CAVILACIONES

2008-06-16T23:15:00.005-05:00

Sometimes is better to leave a text in it original language, because in that way it keeps all the original sense. Hope you enjoy the following text.

A veces quisiera abrir
ese corazón de roca…
remontarme en tu historia
y en tu pensamiento hurgar.

Quisiera pronto aclarar
nuestro tormentoso valle
y que nuestra noche estalle
en luces de mil colores, sin parar.

Que no exista la tristeza,
que todo sea insolación
el pasado del fantasma haga ficción
que muera el recuerdo por nobleza.

Y que Dios con su belleza,
nos una bajo su mar,
nos tome con su mano
para enseñarnos a amar.

Ramón MacKinney

I DON´T WANNA BE...

2008-05-31T17:20:00.001-05:00

Feel the beat now.

FALL IN LOVE WITH

2008-05-14T23:23:00.006-05:00

Fall in love with a person who can love you and wait for you, with a person who can understand you even, in madness; with a person who can help you and lead you, with a person who can be your support, your hope, your everything.

Fall in love with a person who doesn’t betray you, with a person who can be faithful and dream with you. Fall in love with a person who thinks about you, about your face, about your spirit. But, not with a person who thinks in your body or in your possessions.

Fall in love with a person who can wait until the end. With the person you chose and not with the one you expect.

Fall in love with a person who can feel your sadness, and can smile and laugh close to you.

With a person who can dry your tears, who can be happy with your achievements, who can give you strength after a failure.

Fall in love with a person that goes back to you despite any problem.
Fall in love with a person who knows how to be a good partner, who knows how to respect your goals and dreams.

Don’t fall in love with love; fall in love with a person who is in love with you

Picture:http://thestarlitecafe.com/poems/105/poem_91026498.html

GOODBYE

2008-04-14T17:20:00.001-05:00

I hope you find somebody who will love you like I do, 'cause I would lay your body down and rock your tears away, but it's much too late for now to be like yesterday

And the time is running out and we still have to say goodbye.

BACK TO REALITY

2008-04-02T11:15:00.008-05:00

Have you heard that best things happen when you don't expect them?

For a long time my fantasy was to find someone like you, and I didn't know if you existed but suddenly I started having like a kind of presentiment because little by little I was able to feel you and until certain point I was able to see you. Since that moment I started waiting in silence for you. Two and a half years ago you showed up into my life to make me feel happy, to make me feel strong, to make me feel complete.

Of course there are some moments in which I wonder if this is worthwhile, because we have a big problem the distance, but later when I'm with you I say without any hesitation that is worth and that I'm going to do as much as possible to be with you.

Today I have to go back home and it's hard not to feel sad because I'm going to start missing you and again I will have the same feeling I always have any time I'm away from you “feeling that I am living, feeling that I am enjoying but at the same time feeling hollow cause I don't have you close to me”.

With love,

LettyLup

WHEN I´M WITH YOU

2008-03-06T21:49:00.002-06:00

Today while I was walking it the street I was thinking that some persons can show up into our lives and they can caught our attention, but suddenly we realized that they are not what we expect. But, there are some other times in which you say he or she is the person I want to be with, how do you know it? Is hard to explain, is just a feeling that you have with his presence, with the look in his eyes, with the way of his smile.

The moment I saw you
that’s when I knew
I feel it when I'm with you

PostScript

For me there´s no distance too far and you are the only one that still makes feel like home and at the moment I still want you in my life

SADNESS

2008-02-19T22:48:00.002-06:00

I can not define the feeling I´m having right now, perhaps I am sad after listening that, today was going to be the last time I was going to see you, ’cause you have to go to other place, and I can not deny it, it was a kind of shock to know it.

It was a strange feeling ’cause I just saw you four times but since the first time I felt attracted to you because of the sensuality of your dancing. I´m sure I will keep in my memories that sweet pleasure you made me feel and the chance I had today to dance with you.

“Face of a child but soul of a man”.

SOUL OF A MAN

2008-02-04T15:49:00.000-06:00

I saw you at the distance dancing and enjoying the music; I can not deny it, it was a sweet pleasure to observe the sensuality and the confidence you showed on each of your movements. You seduced me when I realized that you have the face of a child but the soul of a man.

THINK ABOUT IT

2008-01-14T22:18:00.000-06:00

My friend after we talked, I´ve been thinking that perhaps now you don´t appreciate the person that is and wants to be close to you, because you know you have her and you know she feels something for you. But have you ever thought that she can get bore and tell you “That´s it! I´m tired of your way of being, of your silence. I deserve a better person”. I think she has an idea that you feel something for her, but don´t you think it will much better if you let her know at least one time what does she mean for you?.

As Borges said “With time you will learn that try to forgive or to ask for forgiveness, say that you love, say that you miss, say that you need, say that you want to be a friend, in front of a tomb, has no sense. But unfortunately only with time”.

Think about it. I know she is not perfect, and I guess that until this time nobody has understood you as she does. She loves you and accepts you just in the way you are.

So don´t be afraid to say or show what you feel, because is better to make the effort to open your heart today instead of saying tomorrow “If I had”.

2008

2008-01-02T09:37:00.000-06:00

My best wishes for you in this 2008.

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO YOU!!

HEY YOU

2007-12-09T20:40:00.001-06:00

Please don’t ask me about the decisions my heart could have, ’cause at the moment I don’t even know them, it still confuse. Right now, I just want to live and enjoy the present I’m living.

But if you ask me about today, without any hesitation I can say... I want him to be part of my life.

FRACTUS

2007-11-06T20:45:00.001-06:00

This time I’m going to change a little bit the main structure of this space posting this video that contains one of the things that have caught my attention.

NO CLUE

2007-10-13T20:54:00.000-05:00

I’ve been trying to find out the reason why I wanted to be with you, or should I say the reason why I want to be with you, if we are completely different:

I am affectionate --- You are cold
I am emotional --- You are emotionless
I am visceral --- You are rational
I am dreamy --- You are realistic
I am impulsive --- You are cautious

At the moment I don’t have an answer I just can say “perhaps it is due to the fact that our differences make us complement each other”.

UPDATE

Why do we look for each other? It is a habit?

STRAIGHT TO NUMBER ONE

2007-09-29T20:09:00.000-05:00

Touch and go...
..........................To number one

http://www.goear.com/listen.php?v=4fe5073

QUOTE

2007-09-16T19:53:00.000-05:00

"Sex is the consolation you have when you can't have love"

Gabriel García Márquez

GLORY BOX

2007-09-02T23:44:00.001-05:00

Give me a reason to love you
Give me a reason to be a woman

MY FRIEND

2007-08-15T22:03:00.000-05:00

My friend, I am not what I seem. My appearance is but a garment I wear, a carefully woven garment that protects me from your questioning and it protects you from my negligence.

The "I" in me, my friend, dwells in the house of silence, and there in it shall remain for ever more, unperceived, unapproachable.

You should not believe in what I say nor trust in what I do, for my words are your own thoughts, made sound, and my actions, your own hopes made actions.

When you say: "The wind blows eastward", I say: “Aye it does blow eastward"; because I do not want you to know that my mind does not dwell upon the wind but upon the sea.

You can not understand my seafaring thoughts, and I do not want it to happen. I prefer to be alone at the sea.

When it is day for you, my friend, it is night for me; yet even then I speak of the noontide that dances upon the hills and of the purple shadow that steals its way across the valley; because you can not hear the songs of my darkness nor see my wings beating against the stars and I am not interested that you hear or see what happens in me. I prefer to be alone with night.

When you ascend to your heaven, I descend to my hell. Even then you call me across the impassable gulf that separate us: "My companion!, My comrade!", and I answer you: "My companion!, My comrade!" because I do not want you to see my hell: the flames would burn your eyesight and the smoke would suffocate you. I like my hell; I love it until the point that I prevent you to visit it. I prefer to be alone in it.

You love the truth, the beauty and the right, me, so as to please you, I say it is fine and I feign to love these things. But in the bottom of my heart I laugh at your love for these things. However, I do not let you to see my laughter. I prefer to laugh alone.

My friend, you are noble, cautious and wise; even more: you are perfect. In my case, I speak with you wisely and cautiously, but... I am mad. But I mask my madness. I prefer to be mad alone.

My friend, you are not my friend, but how shall I make you understand it? My path is not your path; however, we walk together, with our hands taken.

Kalil Gibran

REASONS

2007-08-05T21:16:00.000-05:00

In our last conversation you said something that reminded me this phrase “You presume to know everything about me because you saw a painting of mine”.

In this case you didn’t see a painting of mine, actually you read something I wrote and you thought my words were dedicated to a person and because of that you presume to know the way I was feeling.

My dear friend, if I write about happiness, love, melancholy, emotions… that’s for sure I have reasons to do it, but it doesn’t imply that my words were writing because I was thinking about someone; actually there are a lot of situations could make you write that way.

Perhaps my friend, some other day I will write again, something for that someone I consider or considered “my special person”.

Image: http://eldoctorhache.wordpress.com/tag/pintura/

WITHOUT YOU

2007-07-26T21:13:00.000-05:00

My pillow gazes upon me at night
Empty as a gravestone;
I never thought it would be so bitter
To be alone,
Not to lie down asleep in your hair.
.
I lie alone in a silent house,
The hanging lamp darkened,

And gently stretch out my hands

To gather in yours,

And softly press my warm mouth

Toward you, and kiss myself, exhausted and weak-

Then suddenly I'm awake

And all around me the cold night grows still.

The star in the window shines clearly-

Where is your blond hair,

Where is your sweet mouth?
.

Now I drink pain in every delight

And poison in every wine;

I never knew it would be so bitter

To be alone,

Alone, without you.

Herman Hess

MUST BE

2007-07-19T22:52:00.000-05:00

...Honest

................Intelligent

..................................Ambitious

....................................................Cheerful

....................................................................Romantic

......................................................................................Sensual

.....................................................................................................Sexual

..................................................................................................................Seductive...

NEAR AND FAR

2007-07-09T21:53:00.000-05:00

I’m in love with you… but, you only see me like a friend and it drives me crazy, because my proximity to you allows me to caress your face, to clasp you in my arms, to touch your hand… but suddenly, I realize that at the same time, we are far away and that distance is the one that doesn’t allow me to tell you what I feel for you.

You are so close but at the same time you are so far from me.

There is any special reason for my words; I guess is common to fall in love with one your best friends. Don’t you think so?

FED UP

2007-07-02T23:08:00.000-05:00

I’m fed up not only with your silence, with your hesitation, with your loneliness...

Also I’m fed up with your feelings, with your illusions, with your wait...

Today, am I fed with you or am I fed up with myself?

UPDATE: is not about me.

www,lacoctelera.com/myfiles/mariposa

WANTED

2007-06-25T21:05:00.000-05:00

Some days ago I was listening on the radio a conversation in which men and women were saying that nowadays is getting a little bit difficult to find a partner; the participants were saying that it could be due to changes on people’s priorities ’cause during a long period most of the people are focus on studying, on having a good job, on making money, on travelling, on having fun and on keeping their independency.

Nobody disagree with the fact that all those things are really good to look for, and someone said that precisely those facts make us become more selective therefore is difficult to find a person who fulfils all the characteristics we are looking for.

What do you think about it?

EXTRACT

2007-06-10T22:43:00.000-05:00

Making love with a woman and sleeping with a woman are two separate passions, not merely different but opposite. Love does not make itself felt in the desire for copulation (a desire that extends to an infinite number of women) but in the desire for shared sleep (a desire limited to one woman).

We can never establish with certainty what part of our relations with others is the result of our emotions—love, antipathy, charity, or malice—and what part is predetermined by the constant power play among individuals.

Milan Kundera - The Unbearable Lightness of Being.

...

2007-05-24T16:49:00.000-05:00

I don’t recognise your silhouette, I don’t know who you are, but I know you exist… ’cause I dream your eyes that are anxious of reflections, knowledge and love, and those instances make me able to see you even to feel you.

TODAY

2007-05-17T22:03:00.000-05:00

Today after seeing you I felt that it was like a dream to be there with you… Looking at you, at your eyes, at your smile; enjoying your company, your conversation, your gentlemanly and every nice thought you had with me.

Thanks for those instances and for made rediscover some emotions I had forgotten.

LettyLup

Postscript

You have always called my attention due to a lot factors like your intelligence, your personality, your way of looking, today I had the chance to discover some other things about you, things that I didn’t expect. Luckily I don’t see you so often because I guess you are that kind of person who can easily win over my heart.

THE IRRESISTABLE SOUTH

2007-05-09T13:15:00.000-05:00

I´ve been trying to post this video, but I have had problems so as to do it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x_Q-Kh8uaco

Hope you enjoy the images, they come from a friendly and cosmopolitan port city.

Regards

SOMETHING MAGICAL

2007-04-21T20:47:00.000-05:00

It was only you and I, talking and laughing about everything, the tranquility of your place made us forgot about words, about time, about everything. Suddenly, we were sitting right there, just looking each other......You started touching my hair and caressing my face. Inevitably, that silence and proximity, caused that our mouths started enjoying the softness and humidity of our lips. By inertia, we began to caress and our hands little by little were removing all those obstacles we had so as to discover our skin….

….It was magical, ´cause we started being two and we ended being one.

SILENCE

2007-04-09T21:00:00.000-05:00

...We were both silent, each waiting for the other to speak, but speech is not the only means of understanding between two souls. It is not the syllables that come from the lips and tongues that bring hearts together.

There is something greater and purer than what the mouth utters. Silence illuminates our souls, whispers to our hearts, and brings them together. Silence separates us from ourselves, makes us sail the firmament of spirit, and brings us closer to Heaven; it makes us feel that bodies are no more than prisons and that this world is only a place of exile...

From: Broken Wings

Written by Kahlil Gibran

Picture: http//www.sbbfc.co.uk/images

FOR MY SPECIAL PERSON

2007-03-27T22:54:00.001-05:00

I don’t know if you will read this entry, anyways this is for you.

Do you remember these words?

When I first saw you I already knew, there was something inside of you, something I thought that I would never find, angel of mine. How you changed my world you'll never know I'm different now, you helped me grow...

Now, the chapter of our story has been closed, and in spite of it, I still feel something for you (perhaps not with the same intensity I used to feel) but I know is not enough, because our growing apart has been inevitable.

I’m not pretending to be sentimental, but I know that despite other persons will come along, you will always have a special place in my memories and in my life.

Happy Birthday!

I WANT YOU TO...

2007-03-20T23:32:00.000-05:00

Kiss me,

.............Hug me,

...........................Touch me, and

.................................................. Make me tremble once again.

IF I WAS

2007-03-10T21:17:00.000-06:00

Sometimes at night I start thinking………

If I could have just one wish I'd wish that you were mine, so I would hold you near and kiss away all those tears.

I wish I could reach out and feel you right beside me, and take you in my arms and scream I love you right out loud. But, that's just not meant to be ’cause I’m not the one who is in your life, and I’m not the one who is sharing your nights.

I wish I could be the one in your life.

Modified from "If I was the one"

SO HARD

2007-03-06T21:24:00.000-06:00

By accident I heard part of a conversation between two girls. One of them was feeling so confused and some questions were passing through her mind, like:

How long does it take to forget a person who has been so important in your life?

When and how will I know I’m ready to have a new relationship?

It’s a difficult situation.

Picture from http://www.fotographie.ca

WITH YOU...

2007-02-25T20:36:00.000-06:00

...I want to exchange a kiss for a smile, a silence for a sigh, a caress for a desire, a passion for a love…a life for one I Love You.

NOW...

2007-02-18T21:45:00.000-06:00

Is useless to feign.... You have become the eternal ghost who lives in my memory.

NIGHT SESSIONS

2007-02-05T19:46:00.001-06:00

This music makes my mind to create some scenery about a nice evening. Right now I wish I could be drinking some wine in a nice place and having good conversation with the person I like, and as a perfect complement candle’s light.

IF YOU FORGET ME

2007-01-24T20:34:00.000-06:00

I want you to know
one thing.

You know how this is:
if I look
at the crystal moon, at the red branch
of the slow autumn at my window,
if I touch
near the fire
the impalpable ash
or the wrinkled body of the log,
everything carries me to you,
as if everything that exists,
aromas, light, metals,
were little boats
that sail
toward those isles of yours that wait for me.

Well, now,
if little by little you stop loving me
I shall stop loving you little by little.

If suddenly
you forget me
do not look for me,
for I shall already have forgotten you.

If you think it long and mad,
the wind of banners
that passes through my life,
and you decide
to leave me at the shore
of the heart where I have roots,
remember
that on that day,
at that hour,
I shall lift my arms
and my roots will set off
to seek another land.

But
if each day,
each hour,
you feel that you are destined for me
with implacable sweetness,
if each day a flower
climbs up to your lips to seek me,
ah my love, ah my own,
in me all that fire is repeated,
in me nothing is extinguished or forgotten,
my love feeds on your love, beloved,
and as long as you live it will be in your arms
without leaving mine.

Pablo Neruda

QUESTION

2007-01-16T21:18:00.000-06:00

Some days ago I had an interesting girl’s talk with one of my friends, and as you can imagine a lot of things came up in our conversation. And, there was something she said that made have a slightly dilemma “There are some moments in life in which I wonder, what will be much easier to love or to forget somebody?”

What do you think about it?

TIRED OF BEING SORRY

2007-01-10T22:07:00.001-06:00

Maybe you were right
But baby I was lonely
I don't want to fight
I'm tired of being sorry

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN .. ....?

2007-01-02T20:19:00.000-06:00

In the morning light
Half awake and half a sleep
Have you ever laid there thinking?
Was it all a dream?
But you reach out and he’s there
Every moment, everywhere
Have you ever been in love?

Have you ever felt?
How far a heart can fall
Have you ever stayed up waiting?
For a telephone call
Just to hear him say hello
’Cause you miss each other so
Have you ever been in love?

Have there been times to laugh
And times you really want to cry
Finding reasons to believe him
’Cause you’d die a little if he lied
And when in times of doubt
Have you ever tried to work it out?
But still he leaves you wondering
What it’s all about?

And when he is far away
Have you ever felt the need to stray?
And tried and then discovered
It just doesn’t pay
’Cause with him, you can be true
And with him, you can be you
Have you ever been in love?

And when the night comes down
Can you call your house a home?
Do you dream you’re still together?
And wake up alone
Have you ever been in love?
The way that I’m in love
Have you ever been in love?

by Westlife

NEW YEAR

2006-12-29T20:39:00.000-06:00

Another year has gone, and it took all good and bad moments we lived. But, a new year is going to begin.

This event for some people is no more than a change of a calendar but, for others the New Year symbolizes the beginning of a better tomorrow, so that means we will have the possibility to fulfill some of our dreams, to accomplish some of our resolutions and also we will have the possibility to look for that something that could make us feel complete, and that’s for sure that during our search we will have love, happiness, sadness, encounters, absences, tears and laughs.

The most important here is; to continue trying to accomplish our goals and continue believing in our dreams.

Happy New Year!!!!

WHY MEN LOVE BITCHES

2006-12-20T21:01:00.000-06:00

We all know the meaning of bitch, so you may think Why Men Love Bitches (por qué los hombres aman a las cabronas) is a derogative title, but is not, actually that title belongs to a book written by Sherry Argov, and it is a simple and humoristic woman’s guide to holding her own in a relationship, it is organized into ten chapters with 100 “Attraction Principals”.

This book isn’t about how to play or how to manipulate someone; it is about the attitude girls should have so as to stop being a nice girl and then become a new and improve bitch.

According to Sherry there are two kind of girls the ones that are TOO nice and bitches, now you may wonder, how can I know if I am a nice girl or a bitch?

Let’s meet the nice girl…..

I guess everybody knows a nice girl, she is the kind woman who will overcompensate, giving everything to a man, without him having to invest much in the relationship, also she is the woman who gives blindly because she wants more of her attentions to be reciprocated and she is the woman who goes along with what she thinks her man will like or want, so that means she is too willing to accommodate and please a man, because she thinks that’s the best way to bring his love, but at the end that attitude leads a man to see her like a desperate or like a needy woman.

So at the end a nice girl will start feeling miserable and will start complaining about her relationship but she won’t say a peep and she will want to talk about the situation they are living without having the answer she was expecting.

Now let’s meet a bitch

At the beginning of chapter ten Sherry gives a new definition of the term bitch.

A bitch is a woman who won’t bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else’s opinion – be it a man or anyone else in her life. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it’s just one person’s opinion; therefore, it’s of no real importance. She doesn’t try to live up to anyone else’s standards – only her own.

In other words a bitch is the kind of girl who keeps her independency, who doesn’t chases a man, who has some mystery, a girl who doesn’t allow a man to see her having a bad moment, a girl who has the control of her time and feelings. And if she complains about something or someone, she will say plenty of peeps and if she sees the relationship is not worthwhile she will say no more.

So, as you can see the main difference between a nice girl and a bitch is the attitude each one has.

I want to finish this entry saying:

“Just remember: is not about a man, is your life and it has a big value so as to be wasted. Do things only if you see they are convenient for you, especially about your options and the one you let be close to you. It will give you better utility, especially on dignity department. So never ask for affection, if he does not correspond you, stop giving him affection and stop insisting”.

Post Script

I don’t want to sound like a feminist person, but is a nice feeling to be a bitch; ’cause that means you are a Babe In Total Control of Herself.

UPDATE

When I started reading this book I was slightly skeptical, because I didn’t have idea what I was going to find, but little by little it was calling my attention ’cause it has some helpful advices, but some others are not really good at all. Actually, I’m not saying to apply the whole book on your personal life, ’cause that will be kind of silly. Since my point of view there should be a balance between being a nice girl and a bitch.

WHAT MAKES....?

2006-12-11T21:57:00.000-06:00

During life, love could leave a big mark in memories, in hopes, in feelings.

I was remembering that some months ago, a girl was thinking “This isn't a goodbye, even as I watch him leave, this isn't a goodbye”, and she was not able to forget and his absences was hurting her a lot. For her not only days but also nights were so long, because she was not able to be close to him and due to that she was feeling her soul so sad and so cold. She was trying to hide with a smile the way she was feeling, but I’m sure when no one could see her, tears were always filling her eyes.

After that, I started wondering, what makes a person so right? And how and when do you decide he is the dream that you seek?

DO NOT....

2006-12-04T20:42:00.000-06:00

During my personal and professional life, I have been having successes, but also I have found adversities, and of course they make me feel a little bit frustrated but, precisely those obstacles and mistakes are the ones who make me learn and the ones who make me know I have a new beginning and a reason to start something new, also are the ones who make me think that perhaps my “destiny” has a better idea for me and that I should keep on trying.

ALTHOUGH..

2006-11-27T22:24:00.000-06:00

Although we haven’t been in touch for a while and everything has finished between us, I still remember how it feels to be with you, ’cause my mind has kept all that happiness I used to feel any time I was close to you, and all those emotions my body used to feel any time you touched me, any time you kissed me, any time you held me and any time you loved me.

Now, those days are gone and I know there are no roads to take so as to turn back time. But I wish I could do it, so that I can be one more time right beside you.

POSSIBLE OR IMPOSSIBLE

2006-11-23T21:34:00.000-06:00

The internet has been a revolutionary tool that has changed our lives in a big way, ’cause we can use it, either at home for personal or at work for professional usages. Is quite normal that many people spend part of their day on internet, and they use this kind of medium to get any kind of information. That’s for sure whatever you are looking for you will find it. So, is it possible to find your soul mate and true love in cyberspace?

I think is possible, but I bet is a challenge to do it. I mean you can talk with different kind of people and you can start feeling attracted to a person just by his way of writing, thinking or speaking and I guess that is good beginning. So next step will be to see how he looks like, so you know the person by either cam or picture and perhaps at the same time you can be listening to his voice and all those factors may let you think you will like to know him. So after being talking for a while both may decide is time to know each other, so you have a date.

Since my point of view that will be the hardest part, first ’cause for some people the computer makes them have more self confidence, and in the other hand what if he is not what you expected or what if you don’t feel that chemical or sexual attraction. I mean, things may change.

Anyways, I think to date someone you know in the internet is a challenge, and I guess it will be a good experience. So if you are looking for someone in cyberspace keep on that, who knows probably you, will find your true love.

Possible or impossible, what do you think about it?

I STILL

2006-11-16T23:13:00.000-06:00

Who are you now?
are you still the same,
Or did you change somehow?
What do you do?
At this very moment, when I think of you
and when I’m looking back
How we were young and stupid.
Do you remember that?
I Can’t deny it
Just can’t let you go.

Now look at me
Instead of moving on, I refuse to see
That I’m keep coming back
And I’m stuck in a moment
That wasn’t meant to last.

I tried to fight it
Can’t deny it
You don’t even know that
I still need you
I still care about you
Though everything’s been said and done
I still feel you
Like I’m right beside you
But still no word from you.

This lyrics made me remember that I’ve been on that situation. Now I´m wondering If I still.

WHAT MAKES YOU GET ANNOYED?

2006-11-09T23:34:00.000-06:00

Even if we are not the kind of person who gets angry so easily, that’s for sure there are some factors that can make us feel upset.

In my case I don’t like when people change plans without letting you know but, sometimes I can stand it.

What really drives crazy is when someone wants to bother my family, also when people want to play with my life and time, or when people have a silly or should I say an stupid position like silence and/or indifference, despite they know there is something wrong and things ain’t the same in your friendship or relationship. I mean, at least for me is better to be honest and say the truth.

And there are some other factors that can make feel upset like: discrimination or when people take advantage of their social, cultural and economical position.

Now tell me, what makes you get annoyed?

MEN & FEELINGS

2006-11-06T22:33:00.001-06:00

I think we as women have complain at least one time about men feelings, because sometimes we don’t know if we have a boyfriend or a piece of ice close to us. And we may think do men have feelings? If they do, why don’t they communicate enough? And, why don’t they express their feelings and thoughts?.

Is more than sure that men have feelings, but they do not express them so easy because since they were little kids they haven been “programming” so as to be strong, and for some men to talk about feelings is a sign of weakness.

We girls have to understand that men are suppose to be "machos", that’s why they lack the skills to express their feelings, but I guess on a relationship men will gain the capacity to express their thoughts as soon as they feel more comfortable so as to open their "hearts" because little by little they will see we are not going to laugh of their feelings and we are not going to tell nobody about them.

Anyways, men show what they feel on a different way so we should pay attention on their actions and on their way of being because it might express in a better way what they feel for us.

As Benjamin Franklin said "WELL DONE IS BETTER THAN WELL SAID."

SOMETIMES....

2006-11-01T22:14:00.000-06:00

Since you have gone without saying good bye seems like everything is wrong, and somehow that action makes me feel I have lost much more than pride.

That’s why sometimes I want to forget that I knew you and that you were part of my life, that you made me believe and dream again, that you changed my life and that you touched my heart. Even sometimes I want to forget that I loved, that I shared your dreams and that I shared your bed, but I guess is not possible at all because memories are always there to stay.

P.S. Holy love, you make us feel happy and sad, you makes us dream, miss and cry. But what we will be without you?

PHYSICAL APPEARANCE

2006-10-26T22:02:00.000-05:00

Is that really important to be a good looking person so as to be able to catch someone’s eye?

I will be lying if I say “the way of looking is not important” because is not true at all, actually is the first thing that makes us feel attracted to a person. But as soon as we start spending time with a buy or a girl the physical appearance will be located on a second place because we will find another qualities like their attitude, their intelligence, their goals, their personality, their feelings, their thoughts, etc.

So after being thinking about a question related with this topic I can say that I really don’t see any problem to be attracted to a person that is not pretty good looking because at the end a person is define by their inners and not by their beauty.

So date the person you want to know, the person you want to be with, just take into consideration what is more important for you and what makes you feel more comfortable.

I want to finish this post writing something that I read long time ago “Only brave and big hearts will be able to see and will be able to understand that beauty is not in the face, beauty is a light in the heart”.

HOW CAN YOU MEND A BROKEN HEART?

2006-10-22T22:04:00.000-05:00

I´m sure a lot of people had heard that question at least one time, and I´m sure you had heard different suggestions about the way you can mend it. I know sometimes is really difficult to give a good answer because people feel in a different way and besides that, you don´t know how big is the hurt people have on their hearts.

Today on a TV program I heard an intelligent and a true answer: "You can not say that a heart is broken because you are alive. But you can find confused hearts, afraid hearts, wistful hearts and wounded hearts, in those cases time will be the most important in helping hearts to feel much better".

It does not matter how big was the wound in your heart, you should give you the oportunity to love and to live again.

MUSIC

2006-10-15T12:19:00.000-05:00

Music is an art converted in aesthetic experiences that can express feelings, circumstances, thoughts or ideas.

Music is one of the great pleasures that can exist, is incredible the effects that a good lyrics, music or interpretation can cause, not only in events of daily life but also in memories that we have kept in our mind.

Yesterday I listened to several songs I haven´t heard in a while, and it was great to bring back memories of love, lack of affection, happiness and melancholy I have lived. Also I remembered some singers they used to make me drool. Even I have to confess that although some years have passed, certain green eyes continue making me sigh.

Definitive, I love music.

COMMENTS

2006-10-12T21:54:00.000-05:00

This time I want to talk about two interesting blogs I found:

The first one is called "De perfumes..." and I agree with the person who wrote that blog because in my case a nice smell has a big impact on me, for example I remember that couple weeks ago I was in the subway and suddenly I perceived the smell of my favorite male perfume the which one that makes me remember a guy, and despite the subway was crowded it was incredible that my nose could identify so easy the owner of that smell.

The second blog is called: "De lo romántico a la razón", this one talks about human odor and it effects on choosing a couple, and it was really incredible to find that if you have a genetic compatibility with a person the odor will be unpleasant for you and he says the reason of this effect is that you look for a person with a different genetic immunity.

If you have some time, you should read both blogs, because they are really interesting.

I´m kind of new on this things so if you want to read the complete blogs here you can find them:
http://vidaenfacil.blogspot.com/
http://ozhomatli-pachon.blogspot.com/

CHILDREN

2006-10-10T23:43:00.000-05:00

Yesterday after a stressful day, a three years old girl with her tenderness and her ideas made feel really better.

I started thinking that despite children are small and defenseless they have a lot of wisdom, because they make you understand in thousand forms that there are so many things to be happy with. Also I saw that children have a big capacity to love and with their innocent look they are able to transmit all happiness, honesty and sincerity they keep on their heart.

I think that the most important lesson they can give us is that is possible to live without hatred and resentment.

TO START AGAIN

2006-10-05T23:00:00.000-05:00

Sometimes we believe that we have found the right person, but unfortunately the life makes you see that is not true and you have to start again. This time I want to find a person who doesn’t laugh and who doesn´t show indiference to my feelings, a person who doesn´t see tenderness like a weakness, a person who doesn’t feel fear to love, a person who can not be selfish, a person who can define what he wants and what he feels, a person who has the worth to say “I love you” or “I miss you”, mainly I’m looking for a person who is looking for me in the way I am.

YOU LEARN

2006-10-02T23:12:00.000-05:00

After a while, you learn the subtle diference between holding a hand and chaining a soul.

You learn that love doesn’t mean sex, and that a company doesn’t mean security. And you begin to learn. That kisses are not contracts and presents are not promises and you begin to accept your defeats with head high and with eyes open.

And you learn to build all your roads of today, because tomorrow´s ground is to uncertain for plans, and futures have a way of falling down in pieces. After a while your learn that even sunshine burns if you get to much.

You plant your own garden and you decorate your own soul, instead of waiting for some one to bring you flowers. And you learn that you really can endure, that you really are strong and that you really have a worth, and you learn and learn.

With time you learn that to be with some one who offers you a good future, means that sooner or later you will want to go back to your past. With time you understand that only who is able to love you with your defects and without trying to change you, will be able to give you all the happiness you wish.

With time you find out that if you are at the side of that person just so as to accompany your loneliness, irremediably you will finish hoping not to see him/her again. With time you understand that true friends are counted, and who doesn´t fight for them sooner or later will see himself surrounded by false friends.

With time also you learn that words said in a moment of anger will continue hurting the one you hurt during all his/her life. With time you learn that to say I´m sorry anybody does it, but to forgive is only done by great souls.

With time you figure out that although you are happy with your friends, someday you will cry for those ones you let go. With time you figure out that every experience you have lived is unique.

With time you figure out that the person who humiliates and despises to a human being, sooner or later he/she will suffer the same humiliations or scorns multiplied by two. With time you figure out that to hurry or to force things to happen, will cause that at the end they were not as you expected.

With time you figure out that in reality the future was not the best, if not the instant moment you were living. With time you will see that although you are happy with the ones you have at your side, you will miss the ones that yesterday were with you, but they have gone.

With time you will learn that try to forgive or to ask for forgiveness, say that you love, say that you miss, say that you need, say that you want to be a friend, infront of a tomb, has no sense.

But unfortunately, only with time.

"Written by Jorge Luis Borges"